Memoirs of May

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Sand Castles

What have I been up to? It's really hard to tell.

There are a few things I know for certain, and a lot remains for me to still figure out. I think I owe this post to my son because the mommy in me feels like she hasn't been doing her best.

We recently came back from a mini vacation from Ocean City, Maryland. Much needed for all parties in attendance. But what I am really here to share is the recap I've concluded for the month overall. There are so many touchpoints this blog serves as a fulfillment to me, that I pray it reaches others in an encouraging manner and leaves positive footprints for my amazing son to follow.

I spent the first half of the month sticking to routines that seem to work well, "First Saturdays" vending event was a success, be on the lookout for this months new inventory by the way! Then there was also the realization and importance of "Mental Health" or I like how others are coining "Spiritual Maintenance" which is so necessary in whatever capacity that means for you. 

Digressing, May has expanded the substance needed for me to understand what it means to be a woman, mother, and creative individual. So I share these thoughts with you and note for my son:

I need you to know...

I sincerely appreciate my partner in co~parenting (it's complicated, but hey, always a lesson to be learned). I like the notion that we don't get to choose our parents, but I feel certain that Xavier Amir chose us for a reason. I know better than to project adult complexities and my worldly confusions onto you, there are no excuses. Yes, I am human and make mistakes. Forgive yourself, move forward knowing better and always striving to do better. But understand, people show you who they are, believe them the first time and choose wisely what you will and will not accept. I can not say it enough, simply because you are worth it! That needs no explanation. There's so much more to this, but in due time I will tell.

Us

Strengthen Up!

For now, there is no sugar coating around here, only tough love. So, you will face the realities of race inequities, power, and privilege, broken friendships, hurt and healing, pride and ego the list goes on. All of which I wish I could protect you from. Unfortunately, It's the world we live in, *insert cliche' parent quote* I say it because I've been through and growing through it as we speak. The goal though is to find yourself and stay true to who you are! Rise above all that seems to be against you with humility, gratitude and all the greatness you embody. Dim down for no one. Keep your feet planted firmly on the ground, head held high to the heavens.

Alright, rather tense but I needed the purge on words. On a lighter note, the rejuvenation from this trip and mini hiatus have set me on the right track for flourishing on some new ideas, travel and more. While primarily gems for my kid hopefully, this lends help and healing to whoever may need it.

Do your best,

Mommy.

Women, Mommy's, Umis & Creative nomads alike!

This trip was coordinated via Expedia

Overall trip cost for a family of 4

$$ (out of 5)

Grand Spa Hotel - conveniently got the job done

Kid/family friendly environment - with spots for adults to have a minute to themselves

Ride Time 2.5 hours

Meals - Seafood lovers + local chains

Activities - plenty to do & enjoy!

“Art is a culmination of everyday experiences.”
— John Dewey